STUART HIGHET

Stu passed away at home in Seattle on Friday, April 27, 2012.

Friend, father, grandfather, uncle, husband; counselor, teacher, conversationalist, listener, Highet historian; lover of music, travel, sailing, history, maps, politics, ideas – and peanut butter. Not one for small talk, he loved discussions on any topic. He was inquisitive, gregarious, and very funny. He just loved people, and people loved him. Ever involved in his community, he said he liked “being useful.” Yes, he was “useful,” but so much more,” as those who knew him can attest. He recognized and appreciated the uniqueness of others. Above all, he adored his four kids and embraced all the family with unlimited love. During his final year, he lived life to the fullest with humor, strength, and grace, although prostate cancer had metastasized painfully into his bones.

After living in Tacoma for many years, in 1994 Stu and his wife, Pat, built a home at Piner Point on Maury Island, overlooking Commencement Bay. The Island community welcomed them both; Stu became one of the “Keepers of Point Robinson Lighthouse,” serving on the board and participating in the restoration of the old keepers’ houses. This project was one of his most-loved endeavors.

In 2006 Stu and Pat moved to Seattle to be closer to family, though they were saddened to leave their Vashon community. A detailed history and guestbook can be found at www.funerals.coop (People’s Memorial). A memorial service will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Friday, May 18 at the home of Anita Halstead and Kelly Robinson; 10017 SW Dock St, Vashon Island. A memorial tree will be planted on a later date. His wishes were to have his ashes spread under a newly planted tree. Memorial donations may be made to the charitable organization of your choice.

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