Supreme Court ruling paves the way for true equality

I just heard the news that the Supreme Court ruled in favor of equal marriage rights. Although I had expected it, I felt a visceral reaction to the announcement. It will not end discrimination or bigotry, but it moves our country one step closer to true equal rights.

I have been severely discriminated against most of my life. I have lost jobs, been barred from jobs, lost and been refused housing, bullied, had daily harassment at times and worse, all because I am a lesbian.

Beginning with my involvement in gay rights in the 1970s, I have been preaching the same message. People in our society who are gay must come out of the closet so that those who would cause us harm can see that we are no different than they are. We hold jobs, raise families, go to churches, live productive and even exemplary lives and only want the freedom to love whom we love.

Since coming to Vashon Island 28 years ago with my partner (wife), we have had a peaceful and satisfying life. The community has embraced us as it has all LBGTQ people. That acceptance released me from the torments of the past and allowed me to participate fully in the community, with no fear of discrimination or harassment.

Now, the Supreme Court has paved the way for all people to move into the light of day and become fully realized citizens and gain the benefits of legal marriage. I know that in many parts of the country this decision will trigger all kinds of craziness and backlash. But equal marriage rights are the law of the land.

I didn’t think I’d live to see the day.

— Emma Amiad